how might I be still • teach me to surrender • not my will, thy will ~U2

I have been wanting to create a blog for a while; I just wasn't exactly sure what I would write about or what it would entail, so I just started working on it one day and this is where it's led.

In honor of my husband, Shad, I have chosen a song and a few lyrics from U2 as the title and purpose of my blog. The title and chosen lyrics speak to my desire to daily fall at the feet of Jesus and come to him with all that I am.


Sunday, December 12, 2010

Everyone Needs Compassion

One of my favorite worship songs, is Mighty to Save, by Hillsong. One of the lines gets me every time: Everyone Needs Compassion, Love that's Never failing. As I consider those words, I realize how far I am from offering these two gifts to people in my everyday life. I, often times, find myself so self-absorbed that I miss the opportunities to meet a need that's right in front of me. I miss the opportunity to extend compassion and give a love that's never failing. Yet as I strive to be more like Jesus, I realize just how important these are in my pursuit to mirror the Savior. Time and time again in scripture, Jesus demonstrates compassion; healing the sick, feeding the hungry and giving sight to those blinded and He's calling us to do the same.

I have to admit, I truly struggle in this area. So much so, that I made a goal for 2010 that centered around this very thing. I have challenged myself to be compassionate when at times I felt as though I had none to give and I have sought to develop a heart that genuinely loves. Through my struggles, I have found that this challenge becomes easier when I choose to walk in the Spirit and not in my flesh. Galatians 5:22-23 says, "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. When I walk with the Lord and allow Him to move in my life, these things become more evident and it becomes easier for me to be compassionate to those that God has given me to love. I have also found that dwelling in the Word brings about true transformation which results in my life looking a little bit more like His each day. Another place I have found the strength to live a life filled with compassion is in the authentic fellowship of other believers. In times of community, I have experienced unselfish loving, honest sharing, practical serving, sacrificial giving, sympathy and comfort from others. I have experienced mercy, people who resolve conflict quickly and real relationships whereby people belong and are loved. These times have encouraged me to extend this to others as often as it has been extended to me.

Over the past few years, I have sought ways to demonstrate compassion in real, tangible ways so that others know they're cared for, loved and even more deeply loved by the Savior. As I commit to imitating Christ by choosing to love, when I frequently clothe myself in compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience lives can be changed. And when I decide to forgive and live in harmony with others lives will be impacted.

For 2011, in my pursuit to love and be compassionate, I am committing to resolving conflict and refusing to listen to gossip or being the gossiper. I will daily choose to encourage rather than criticize, I will commit to unity over discord and I will love in spite of imperfections. Jesus said that by this (love) the world would know (they can tell because they see) that we are His disciples. I will choose not to let cruelty, harshness, indifference, meaness and callousness to be the norm in my life. Instead, I will seek a life that puts others before myself, I will actively pursue opportunities to be an encouragement whether it be through a phone call, a card in the mail, a meal or a bag of groceries and I will be a light and a breath of fresh air even when the alternative would be easier.

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I would be delighted to have you share your thoughts so that we might be challenged and encouraged by one another. As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another. Proverbs 27:17

What is one step that you can take today to connect with someone and show them compassion and love that's never failing?

Consider what relationships need healing, forgiveness, restoration, compassion. Do what you can to heal those relationships.

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Matthew 15:32~Then Jesus called his disciples to him and said, "I have compassion on the crowd because they have been with me now three days and have nothing to eat. And I am unwilling to send them away hungry, lest they faint on the way."

Galatians 6:2~Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.

Galatians 5:22-23~But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.

Colossians 3:12-14~Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.

I Peter 3:8~Finally, all of you, have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind.

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